The enemy is so annoying! He waits until you’re already tired, stressed out, and staying composed then he hits you with his best shot. A smart mouthed clerk, an unexpected bill, a relationship breaks up, a flat tire, anything to corrode your strength into fury. But, before you reach out your arms to put them around someone’s neck I encourage you to find a black hole.
Black hole? Yes… a person, place, or thing you can dump into, then walk away unburdened. For me my black hole is my “village” I have an amazing group of people in my life that I can completely fall apart in front of then straighten up and walk both stronger and greater than I ever did before. Your black hole may be a car to sit in and scream, a journal you can write anything into, or a park you go to and wonder around. No matter what it is, you have to find a way to feel it and move on! The key to succeeding in life is having an outlet, felling every emotion and learning how to send them down the appropriate path. Evaluate your friends and space, and find a black whole. So that when an enemy comes against you, you lock in… the come out fighting.